about Nichole Farrow

Born into a blended family, my parents divorced when I was two amid infidelity, navigating a co-parenting dynamic that was anything but harmonious. No disrespect to my parents—they were doing their best with the tools they had—but the toxic environment they created left a deep mark on me and my siblings. The impact was clear: five out of six of us, myself included, ended up divorced in adult life.

At 21, I lost my dad to cancer, leaving a void I desperately tried to fill. Six months later, I met my ex-husband and married young, hoping to create stability. But the relationship was unhealthy, and at 28, I found myself divorced, heartbroken, and questioning everything.

That challenging period forced me to look inward. I discovered NLP and human needs psychology, both of which became the foundation of my coaching practice. I worked to heal from my own divorce, confronting the programming from my parents’ toxic relationship, and began to see the patterns I needed to break.

My corporate career at the time, working in business and people strategy, taught me just how much personal relationships and home life impact success at work and beyond. It was this combination of personal healing and professional insight that ultimately led me to pursue coaching full-time.

Where I am today

Today, with 13 years of professional coaching experience, I specialize in guiding individuals, couples, and families through life’s pivotal moments. My expertise spans marriage coaching, succession planning, co-parenting, blended family dynamics, and probate support. I’ve had the privilege of working on high-profile family cases and collaborating with top solicitors who often refer clients to me. My insights are regularly sought by the media, including appearances on BBC Five Live, Radio 4, Tatler, and Spear’s Magazine.

I work with domestic and international clients, including high-net-worth and complex families, helping them navigate challenges while preserving their legacy and fostering healthy, thriving relationships. My approach is bespoke, combining empathy, real-life insights, and no-nonsense strategies tailored to each family’s unique needs.

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Alongside my one-on-one coaching, I co-host the Parenting and Marriage in the Digital Age podcast with my husband, Ben, where we share practical advice on building strong marriages and raising confident children. Together, we also run the Relationship Revolution Membership, a transformative program for couples seeking balance, connection, and partnership in every area of their lives.

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At home, Ben and I navigate our own blended family, raising two young children while undoing the programming from our own childhoods. We’re committed to creating the loving, respectful, and harmonious family dynamic we didn’t grow up with—a reality I once thought impossible. Today, I’m proud to say my family is happily blended, with my mum and stepmum even holidaying together and joining us for family events.

My mission is bigger than helping individual families—it’s about creating a movement to break cycles of dysfunction, foster healthy relationships, and empower families to thrive. When families thrive, communities flourish, and we pave the way for brighter futures for the next generation.

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How I can help you

I support clients in balancing home life and careers, guiding them through marriage, parenting, succession planning, separation, co-parenting, and blending families. Whether you’re preparing for marriage, rekindling connection, planning for the future, or navigating co-parenting challenges, I’m here to help you create a family environment where everyone can flourish.

Get in touch to work one-on-one with me, tune into our podcast, or join the Relationship Revolution Membership—a community of parents committed to being the best partners and parents they can be. Together, we’ll create the healthy, thriving family you’ve always dreamed of.

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